Compassion: Honoring The Logic of Your Patterns
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Compassion: Honoring The Logic of Your Patterns

Shame keeps us focused on old patterns and labels them as “broken”, but compassion allows us to witness the incredibly brilliant ways you survived and to gently begin to explore new ways of being.

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Safety Built, Not Assumed
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Safety Built, Not Assumed

My perspective is that safety isn’t something that a therapist can persuade a client to believe or something that can be forced. Instead, safety is a felt experience and something that is created over time.

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Why should you start therapy in the summer?
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Why should you start therapy in the summer?

As summer comes to a close, many kids and adults get worried or anxious about fall coming, school starting, new grades, teachers, schools, and commitments ahead. If you started therapy in the summer, you will have the relationship with the therapist already to support you or your child as you prepare for the year ahead!

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Should I Go To Therapy?
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Should I Go To Therapy?

Have you ever asked yourself the question, “Should I go to therapy?”

There are a lot of misconceptions about therapy and who would benefit from it. The truth is that there are so many reasons to go to therapy and it is a practice that most anyone would benefit from.

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Stages of Change
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Stages of Change

Generally, the concept of Stages of Change can be applied to any change any of us make. It is helpful to understand these stages in order to have patience and understanding with ourselves and others. We know that change is a process, not an event.

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Spiritual Trauma
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Spiritual Trauma

Spiritual trauma can feel incredibly disorienting because it destabilizes the foundation upon which an entire worldview is built. It also begins to confuse the actual belief system of someone’s faith with the messages and behaviors of the other humans associated with that belief system, something wholly different than a response from God.

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The Effects of Domestic Violence on Children
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The Effects of Domestic Violence on Children

The reality is that even if a child never witnesses one parent abuse the other, the emotional tone in that home is often one filled with tension, fear, and control. This environment can negatively impact children and their development all on its own.

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The EMDR Alphabet
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The EMDR Alphabet

When you are ready to process your past trauma, you deserve the best. You deserve to know how much training your therapist has received and how much supervision has been required. We hope this also helps to demystify all those letters and designations you might often see associated with EMDR.

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